Experience in raising children born at an advanced age
With the progress of society and the improvement of people's living standards, the phenomenon of elderly childbearing has gradually increased. Elderly childbearing refers to the childbearing of women over 35 years old. Due to physiological changes and the special needs of children's own development, the parenting experience of older children is different from that of children of other ages. The following is to share some experience in raising older children from four aspects: physical health, mental health, education planning and family support.
good health
For elderly mothers, health is the basis of child rearing. During pregnancy, pregnant women should regularly carry out prenatal examinations to ensure their own and the health of the fetus. It is very important to choose a formal and well-equipped hospital. For example, the Maternal and Child Health Hospital of a city is a highly recognized high-quality hospital. Their professional medical team has rich experience in the pregnancy and delivery of elderly pregnant women, and can provide all-round professional services.
In addition, the elderly pregnant women also need to pay special attention to diet, increase nutrition intake, supplement vitamins and minerals, and avoid overwork and heavy pressure life. Reasonable exercise is also an important way to keep healthy during pregnancy. Regular yoga, walking and other light exercises for pregnant women can strengthen muscles, relieve pressure and improve the physique of pregnant women.
After giving birth, the puerpera should receive postpartum physical recovery in time, including rest, diet conditioning and regular postpartum inspection during recovery. Postpartum recovery is an important stage for elderly mothers. Proper postpartum exercise can effectively promote the recovery and health of the body by following the doctor's advice.
mental health
In the process of raising children born at an advanced age, maternal mental health also needs attention. In the process of pregnancy and child rearing, mothers may face more anxiety and pressure. Therefore, mothers need to keep good communication with their families and professionals, talk about their feelings, and find appropriate ways to release their emotions.
In addition, pregnant women can gain more knowledge, understand the skills and experience of childcare, and enhance self-confidence by attending prenatal counseling classes and other ways. You can also join the mother and baby club or social circle to share experience with other mothers, support and encourage each other.
In the process of children's growth, parents also need to pay attention to their own mental health. Parents should face their children's growth and education with a peaceful attitude, respect their personality and will, and give them proper autonomy and independence.
Education planning
For children born at an advanced age, education planning also needs to be treated differently from other children. Parents should pay special attention to their children's learning interests and expertise to provide them with more personalized education. When selecting kindergartens and schools, we should comprehensively consider the school's teaching quality, educational philosophy and teachers.
In addition, parents should reasonably plan their children's extracurricular activities according to their children's characteristics and growth stages. Cultivate children's interests and comprehensive quality, and let them develop in an all-round way. At the same time, we should pay appropriate attention to children's learning pressure, and avoid excessive competition and overload.
Regularly communicate with the child's teachers and counselors to understand the child's performance and status in school, and work with the child to solve problems in learning and life, so as to promote the child's all-round development.
Family support
As the parents of elderly children, family support is particularly important. Maternal women need the care and care of their families during pregnancy and after childbirth, so that they have enough time and energy to recover and take care of their children.
Mutual support between parents is also key. The husband and wife should share the childcare task, understand and tolerate each other, and face the difficulties and challenges in the growth of children together.
In addition, families can establish close ties with other families, experience the joys and difficulties of childcare together, and help and support each other.
Summary
The parenting experience of older children starts from four aspects: physical health, mental health, education planning and family support, including maintaining physical health, paying attention to mental health, personalized education planning and mutual support of family members. Through reasonable parenting experience and good living environment, children born at an advanced age can also grow up healthily and happily.
