The Influence of Older Childbearing on Children's Parent child Relationship
With the development of society and the improvement of medical conditions, more and more women choose to postpone childbearing until they are old. However, the elderly childbearing will have a series of effects on the parent-child relationship of children. This article will elaborate on this impact from several aspects.
Physical health and disease risk
Children born at an advanced age tend to be weak at birth and are prone to suffer from some diseases, such as congenital heart disease, Down syndrome, etc. These diseases will have adverse effects on children's physical and psychological development, and will also affect the establishment of parent-child relationship. In areas with insufficient medical conditions, due to limited resources, the treatment and rehabilitation of these diseases may be limited, resulting in barriers to trust and emotion between parents and children.
In addition, mothers who give birth at an advanced age may face more physical health problems during the growth of their children, such as being more likely to suffer from chronic diseases and mental health problems. This will affect the mother's mood and energy, and then affect the quality of parent-child relationship. Mothers may be unable to take effective care of their children due to physical discomfort, which leads to insufficient parent-child interaction and lack of emotional communication, affecting the closeness of parent-child relationship.
In addition, compared with young peers, children born at an advanced age may have a larger gap in physiology and psychology, which makes them difficult to adapt to common activities and games, resulting in less communication between parents and children, and difficult to establish intimate relations.
Family support and social interaction
Children born at an advanced age may receive more attention and care in their families, which has a positive impact on their growth and development. Family members and relatives are very important for children's companionship and care. They can provide emotional support, guidance and encouragement, and help children adapt to the external environment. Such family support helps to promote the closeness of parent-child relationship and strengthen the emotional relationship between parents and children.
At the same time, children born at an advanced age may face social problems from peers. Due to the large age difference, they may feel insecure or lonely among their peers, which leads to difficulties in social interaction. However, family support can make up for this deficiency and help them build good social skills.
In addition, family support can also help children build good self-esteem and self-confidence, so that they can more actively participate in various activities. Such active participation can promote the interaction and trust between parents and children, and deepen the depth of parent-child relationship.
Emotional Support and Educational Methods
Parents who give birth at an advanced age are usually more mature and stable, and are more patient and tolerant of their children. This enables them to meet the needs of children through emotional support and understanding, and establish a good parent-child relationship. Parents' emotional support can help children establish correct values and beliefs, and cultivate a positive attitude.
On the other hand, parents who give birth at an advanced age may pay more attention to intellectual and moral education in the way of education, and pay more attention to children's learning and training. They usually have more time and energy to invest in children's education, so they provide more learning opportunities and resources for children. This makes the educational environment in the parent-child relationship more conducive to the comprehensive development of children.
However, parents who give birth at an advanced age may be tired due to their older age, which affects their upbringing and discipline of children. In the way of education, they may be more inclined to indulge and indulge, leading to the emergence of children's behavior problems. Therefore, parents need to pay more attention to their own physical and mental health after giving birth at an advanced age to ensure education and care for children.
Summary
The elderly childbearing has had many impacts on the parent-child relationship of children. In terms of physical health and disease risk, children born at an advanced age may face problems of weak health and high disease risk, which affects the establishment of parent-child relationship. In terms of family support and social interaction, the companionship and care of family members are very important for children's growth and help them build good social skills. In terms of emotional support and education methods, parents who give birth at an advanced age are usually more mature and stable, able to provide emotional support and understanding, establish a good parent-child relationship, and pay attention to children's education and training. However, they may also face fatigue and education problems, and need to pay attention to their physical and mental health. In a word, elder childbearing has a positive and negative impact on children's parent-child relationship, and parents need to fully consider and respond to it in the process of elder childbearing.
