Prolonged difficulty generation cycle
The primary impact of elderly childbearing on the relationship between husband and wife is the extension of the reproductive cycle. With the growth of women's age, the ovarian function will gradually decline, and the egg quality will also decline. This means that couples often take longer to conceive successfully. Many couples have anxiety and stress due to long-term infertility, which has a negative impact on the relationship between husband and wife.
In addition, long-term IVF treatment can also create stress in the relationship between husband and wife. IVF technology usually involves multiple steps and attempts, which have brought huge psychological, economic and physical burdens to couples. Couples need to face painful surgery, hormone therapy and financial pressure, which may affect the relationship.
In addition, tension and quarrels may also occur in the relationship between husband and wife when the hospital is queuing for IVF for a long time. Long waiting and disappointment will lead to emotional instability, and communication and understanding between couples will also be affected.
Increased psychological pressure
The elderly childbearing will also bring great psychological pressure to the couple, and then affect the marital relationship. Women often experience great anxiety and inner struggle in the process of late pregnancy. They may be worried that they have passed the optimal childbearing age and are afraid that they cannot become mothers. These anxieties and worries will make them sensitive and irritable, and they are prone to conflict with their husbands.
On the other hand, men also suffer from stress. The husband may feel a heavy responsibility, need to bear the family's financial burden and support the wife's mood. They may feel helpless and depressed, and communication with their wives becomes difficult.
Due to the problem of infertility, couples may also face pressure from family and society. Expectations, doubts and pressures from families and relatives and friends may make couples feel depressed and disappointed, leading to tension in their relationship.
Role changes in the relationship
Older childbearing may also cause changes in the roles of husband and wife. In the process of childbirth, women usually need to bear more physical and psychological burdens, while men need to provide more support and understanding.
In the process of trying to conceive, women may need to receive various discomfort and treatment, such as hormone therapy, surgery, etc. These processes have an impact on women's physical and mental health. In the relationship between husband and wife, men need to pay more attention to and take care of their wives and assume more responsibilities.
On the other hand, men may feel helpless and depressed during long-term infant treatment. They may need to pay attention to their wife's mood and provide support. This may also lead to changes in the role of the husband and wife relationship. Men need to be more understanding and tolerant, while women need to bear more expectations and pressure.
Increased economic pressure
Elderly childbearing often requires medical treatment such as IVF, which often requires huge costs. Medical expenses have a great impact on the economic situation of husband and wife families.
IVF technology usually requires multiple attempts, and each attempt may cost a lot of money. Over time, couples may need to increase their financial input. Financial problems may be an important reason for disputes and tensions in the relationship between husband and wife.
In addition, the elderly may also face financial pressure to support and educate their children. With the growth of age, the working ability and income of couples may decline, which will increase the pressure on family finance and further affect the relationship between husband and wife.
Summary
The impact of elderly childbearing on husband and wife relationship is mainly reflected in four aspects: the difficulty generation cycle is longer, the psychological pressure is increased, the role changes in the relationship and the economic pressure is increased. Prolonged reproductive cycle and pressure of IVF treatment may lead to tension and anxiety in the relationship between husband and wife. The long-term problem of infertility has brought great psychological pressure to couples, which is easy to cause quarrels and conflicts. Older childbearing may also cause changes in the roles of husband and wife, and men need to provide more support and understanding. In addition, elderly childbearing also increases economic pressure, which may lead to financial disputes. Therefore, couples need to fully communicate and understand before deciding to give birth at an advanced age, and be ready to deal with possible problems.
