The Influence of Older Childbearing on Couple's Emotion
With the development of society and the progress of medical technology, more and more couples choose to delay childbearing, and the elderly childbearing has gradually become a common phenomenon. However, compared with young couples, giving birth at an advanced age may bring some unique challenges and impacts, especially in the relationship between husband and wife. This article will discuss the influence of elderly childbearing on the relationship between husband and wife from four aspects: physical health, psychological pressure, family responsibilities and children's growth.
1、 Physical health impact
For women, the risks of pregnancy and childbirth will increase with age. For example, the risk of difficult pregnancy, spontaneous abortion, premature delivery and fetal malformation will increase significantly. At the same time, women may experience more physical discomfort and pain in the process of elderly childbearing. These physical health problems may increase the pressure between husband and wife, and even have a negative impact on their feelings.
For men, elderly childbearing will also have a certain impact on sexual functions such as impotence and premature ejaculation, which may lead to a decline in the quality of sexual life, and thus affect the harmony and stability of the relationship between husband and wife.
In addition, both husband and wife may need to conduct prenatal examination regularly and receive more medical intervention, and the economic and time costs will also increase. These physical health problems and additional stress may adversely affect the relationship between husband and wife.
2、 Negative effects of psychological pressure
Older childbearing is often accompanied by a longer pregnancy preparation process and uncertainty, and couples may face greater psychological pressure. Women may feel anxious, nervous and worried, while men may face more sense of responsibility. These pressures and negative emotions may affect the emotional communication and interaction between couples and increase the conflict and contradiction between couples.
In addition, the success rate of elderly childbearing is also relatively low. If many attempts fail, couples may fall into disappointment and depression. This emotional accumulation may have a long-term negative impact on the relationship between husband and wife, and even lead to emotional alienation.
Therefore, in the process of giving birth at an advanced age, both husband and wife need to support, understand and support each other to cope with psychological pressure together to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
3、 Increased family responsibilities
With the birth of children, the family responsibilities between husband and wife will also increase significantly. Parents who give birth at an advanced age often need more energy and time to devote to the care and education of their children. This may lead to the unbalanced distribution of time and energy between husband and wife, increasing the pressure and friction between them.
In addition, both husband and wife have to face problems such as children's future education and economic pressure after giving birth at an advanced age. They may need to work longer hours and spend more money to meet their children's needs. These additional family responsibilities and pressures may have a negative impact on the relationship between husband and wife.
4、 Impact of children's growth
Couples who give birth at an advanced age may face more physical and mental challenges during the growth of their children. Their physical strength and energy may not match their children's needs. This may lead to increased fatigue and stress between couples, making it difficult to maintain a good relationship.
In addition, couples who have given birth at an advanced age may have a generation gap. As couples grow older, communication and understanding with their children may become difficult. This may lead to disagreement between husband and wife in terms of educating their children, and even affect the harmony and stability of the relationship between husband and wife.
Summary
The elderly childbearing will have various effects on the couple's feelings. Physical health problems, psychological pressure, family responsibilities and children's growth may all bring pressure and challenges to the relationship between husband and wife. However, as long as the couple can understand, support and communicate with each other and establish a good interaction and support system, the elderly childbearing will not cause irreversible damage to the couple's feelings. Therefore, in the choice of elderly childbearing, couples need to consider their own physical conditions, psychological endurance and family conditions, and make appropriate decisions to maintain the harmony and happiness of the husband and wife relationship.
