Spring Festival test tube baby: how to deal with the misunderstanding and pressure of people around?
With the continuous progress of science and technology, IVF technology has gradually become popular in the traditional festival of the Spring Festival. However, IVF families often feel at a loss in the face of misunderstanding and pressure from people around them. This article will introduce how to deal with the misunderstanding and pressure of people around you from the aspects of family support, correct communication, positive attitude and professional consultation.
1、 Family support
When IVF families deal with pressure, family support is crucial. First of all, IVF families should communicate with their families frankly, tell them their own choices and decisions, and explain the principle and safety of IVF technology. At the same time, family members also need to understand and accept the psychological and physiological pressure that this process may bring.
Secondly, IVF families can enhance family ties by organizing family activities. For example, during the Spring Festival, a happy family gathering can be held for all family members to participate. This can not only relieve family pressure, but also enable relatives to better understand and support the choice of IVF families.
Finally, IVF families can seek the help of psychological tutors. Psychological counselors can provide professional psychological support and advice to help IVF families effectively cope with the misunderstanding and pressure of people around them, and also help families better support IVF families.
2、 Communicate correctly
When IVF families face the misunderstanding of people around them, the correct way of communication is very important. First of all, IVF families should remain calm and rational and not feel angry or sad because of the misunderstanding of others. On the contrary, we can patiently explain the principle and process of IVF technology, as well as our own motivation and hope.
Secondly, IVF families should choose the right time and place to communicate. During the Spring Festival, the gathering of family and friends may not be suitable for in-depth discussion. You can choose to communicate in private or in appropriate occasions. At the same time, IVF families can also prepare some relevant information and popular science knowledge in advance for emergencies.
Finally, IVF families should respect the opinions and feelings of others and not force them to change their views. Although IVF technology is feasible and safe in medicine, everyone has different views and beliefs about the choice of reproductive mode. IVF families should respect the incomprehension and misunderstanding of others, rather than trying to change their views.
3、 Positive attitude
IVF families should maintain a positive attitude and not be influenced by the misunderstanding and pressure of people around them. First of all, IVF families should believe in their own choices and firmly follow their own path. No matter what the outside world thinks of IVF technology, it is important that IVF families believe that it is completely reasonable and legitimate to realize their dreams through scientific means.
Secondly, IVF families should pay attention to their own physical and mental health. In the face of pressure and misunderstanding, IVF families can relieve pressure and maintain a good psychological state by participating in outdoor activities, doing appropriate sports or trying some relaxation methods.
Finally, IVF families can actively participate in relevant social activities. For example, establish contact with other IVF families, share experiences and feelings, and support and encourage each other. At the same time, IVF families can also actively participate in some related public welfare activities, and make their own contributions to the promotion and popularization of IVF technology.
4、 Professional consultation
In the face of misunderstanding and pressure from people around, IVF families can seek professional advice. First, you can consult a doctor or a professional reproductive medical center to learn more about IVF technology. Doctors can give professional advice and guidance to help IVF families better face the misunderstanding and pressure of people around them.
Secondly, IVF families can seek the help of psychological tutors. Psychological counselors can provide professional psychological support and advice to help IVF families cope with misunderstanding and pressure from family members to the public. Psychological counselors can also help IVF families to establish a positive attitude and coping strategies.
Finally, IVF families can seek support from mutual aid organizations. IVF mutual aid organizations are usually composed of families that have successfully obtained children through IVF technology. They can provide experience sharing, emotional support and advice guidance, so that IVF families no longer feel lonely and confused.
Summary
When dealing with the misunderstanding and pressure of people around, IVF families can start from family support, correct communication, positive attitude and professional consultation. Family support includes the understanding and acceptance of family members, the promotion of family ties and the help of psychological counseling. Correct communication needs to be calm and rational, choose the right time and place to communicate, and respect the opinions and feelings of others. Positive attitude includes believing in one's own choice, paying attention to physical and mental health and actively participating in social activities. Professional consultation can learn relevant information through consulting doctors or reproductive medicine centers, seek help from psychological tutors, and join mutual aid organizations. To sum up, IVF families can better cope with the misunderstanding and pressure of people around them through the above methods.
