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P: When parents divorce, the growth environment of children will change significantly, and parent-child relationship will also face challenges. However, with the development of science and technology, IVF technology has become a way to enable children from divorced parents to have biological parent-child relationships. However, can IVF fully meet the needs of children for parent-child relationship after their parents divorce? This article will elaborate on it from four aspects: psychology, social interaction, emotion and biology.
Psychological needs
Self identification
P: For children, having biological kinship with their parents is very important for forming self identity and sense of identity. Test tube babies can meet this demand because they are biologically related to divorced parents.
P: At the same time, when children learn that they are IVF babies in school or social occasions, they may face some psychological pressure and identity problems. Parents should help children establish positive self-identity through positive family education and psychological counseling.
Stability and security
P: In terms of parent-child relationship, IVF meets the needs of children for stability and security. Although parents are divorced, children can still feel close emotional connection and sense of belonging of family community through contact with biological parents.
P: However, family unrest caused by parents' divorce may still have an impact on children's psychological stability. Parents need to strengthen communication with their children and provide stable living environment and support to meet their children's psychological needs.
Talk and understand
P: Children need to talk and get the understanding and support of their families to cope with the pressure and difficulties caused by their parents' divorce. The existence of IVF and biological parents can promote good family communication and mutual understanding.
P: The key is that parents need to create an open and warm family atmosphere, encourage children to express their feelings, and give positive responses and support. In addition, the help of psychological professionals is also important. They can provide more professional assistance and guidance.
Social needs
relationship
P: IVF can meet the needs of children for kinship. They have blood ties with biological relatives.
P: However, only having biological kinship cannot fully meet the social needs of children. Parents should promote their children to establish close relationships with other relatives, such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc., so as to expand their children's social circle.
Friendly relationship
P: IVF babies are no different from non IVF babies in terms of social interaction. They can establish friendship with other children, and communicate and play in school and social circles.
P: Parents play an important role in children's social development. They should create opportunities for children to meet new friends and provide appropriate guidance to help children establish healthy and stable friendship.
Emotional support
P: The existence of IVF and biological parents provides emotional support for children. After parents divorce, biological parents can provide additional care and support for their children.
P: However, when dealing with emotional problems, children also need support from many aspects. Family members, teachers and psychological professionals can give emotional support and guidance to children.
Emotional needs
Establishment of parent-child relationship
P: IVF can meet the needs of children to establish parent-child relationship. Although the parents are divorced, the children and biological parents have unique emotional ties, and both parties have the opportunity to establish a stable parent-child relationship.
P: When cultivating emotional ties with biological parents, parents should pay attention to communication, care and joint participation in their children's lives, and create an open and warm family atmosphere.
Influence of parental relationship
P: Parental relationship has a great impact on children's emotional needs. The parents of IVF babies need to try their best to maintain a friendly cooperative relationship to create a stable emotional family environment.
P: If the relationship between parents is tense or conflict occurs frequently, children may be negatively affected and need more emotional support and guidance.
Parents' emotional health
P: Parents' emotional health is crucial to children's emotional needs. Parents of IVF infants need to pay attention to their own emotional health in order to better meet their children's emotional needs.
P: Mental health institutions and professionals can provide help and guidance to parents, help them cope with the emotional distress caused by divorce, and provide support and advice.
Biological needs
Gene inheritance
P: IVF can meet the needs of children for gene inheritance. As biological parents, they can share some genes with their children, which is crucial for their children's identity and self-development.
P: However, genetic inheritance is not the only determinant of parent-child relationship. Parents' companionship, education methods and family environment will also have an important impact on children's growth.
Health and genetic diseases
P: The parent-child relationship between IVF and biological parents means that children have more knowledge and concern about health and genetic diseases.
P: Medical institutions such as XX Hospital can provide IVF technology to enable parents to understand the possible genetic risks and provide corresponding suggestions and treatment plans.
Family ties
P: IVF can help children establish closer family ties with biological families. They can share the same genes, surnames, family traditions and values.
P: The maintenance of kinship needs the guidance and promotion of parents, including organizing family activities, attending family gatherings and inheriting family culture.
summary
P: Although IVF can meet some of the needs of children for parent-child relationship after parents divorce, it still needs the active participation and support of parents. Children's psychological, social, emotional and biological needs can only be met by parents' open, warm family environment and active guidance.
P: Good cooperation between parents, family communication and parent-child activities are all important factors to meet children's needs. For the healthy growth of children, parents should work together to provide all-round support and care.
