IVF, decision regret
Test tube baby is the crystallization of modern technology and medicine, which provides a chance for couples who cannot conceive naturally. However, with the popularization of IVF technology, some people began to reflect on their decisions, and felt painful about the real regret after choosing IVF. This article will discuss the real regret of IVF from more perspectives.
The gap between ideal and reality
The IVF process often requires multiple attempts, but not every time it succeeds. This is a setback for the couple. When they realize that they may never have their own children, their disappointment and regret will breed. They began to doubt their decisions and whether it was worth going through so much pain and financial burden. This regret was often accompanied by inner entanglement and pain.
In addition, IVF may also face some unexpected problems after its success. For example, IVF babies may encounter physical health problems after birth, or difficulties in establishing emotional ties with biological parents. The emergence of these problems may make couples regret their decisions and feel that they have not considered all the possibilities.
Moral and ethical dilemmas
Another reason for IVF regret is the existence of moral and ethical dilemmas. Some people may not fully consider these problems when choosing IVF, and only after the birth of the child realize that they may not be able to face these difficulties. For example, IVF babies may face discrimination and prejudice from society. They may be regarded as "design children" and criticized by others.
In addition, IVF may also cause conflicts within the family. For example, couples may argue because of different expectations of IVF. One side may place too high expectations on children's development and achievements, while the other side may pay more attention to children's needs and happiness. This difference may lead to tension and regret within the family.
Economic and psychological burden
IVF not only needs couples to bear high medical costs, but also needs long-term psychological support and treatment. This economic and psychological burden may bring great pressure and regret to couples. They may begin to doubt whether they really need children and whether it is worth paying so much for a goal that may not be certain.
The regret of IVF is not rare. It is a psychological dilemma that many couples may face. However, we cannot ignore the hope and joy brought by IVF. For those couples who succeed in IVF, their regret may be just a ups and downs in the process, and they will find satisfaction and happiness in the end. Therefore, we need to pay more attention to IVF regret, provide more psychological support and counseling, and help couples get through this difficult stage.
conclusion
The regret of IVF is real, which comes from the couple's reflection on choice and worry about possible problems in the future. IVF is a great technology, but it is also a decision that needs careful consideration. Before deciding to choose IVF, couples should fully understand its possible consequences and difficulties, and make rational decisions under the guidance of doctors and psychologists. The regret of IVF can be alleviated through more psychological support and counseling, so as to help couples better adapt to their choices. This will not only help them to ease the pain of regret, but also help them to better cultivate and take care of their children.
