Effect of IVF dismissal on marital relationship
With the development of IVF technology, many infertile couples have the opportunity to realize their reproductive aspirations. However, sometimes the birth of a baby is not as expected, and there may be various reasons why couples cannot continue to raise IVF babies. The dismissal of IVF not only causes psychological and emotional distress to a single couple, but also may have a profound impact on the relationship between husband and wife. This article will elaborate on the impact of IVF dismissal on husband wife relationship from the following four aspects.
1. Psychological pressure and frustration
The dismissal of IVF is a heavy blow to both husband and wife. They went through a long process of treatment, paid a lot of efforts and economic costs, but ultimately failed to achieve their fertility aspirations. This sense of frustration and loss will bring great pressure to the couple's psychological state.
Couples may feel remorse and guilt, doubt whether they can become qualified parents, and even suffer from loss of self-esteem. This series of negative emotions may lead to more quarrels and conflicts between husband and wife.
At this time, couples need to forgive and understand each other, face setbacks together, and actively seek solutions to problems. Psychological counseling and support can help couples relieve stress and rebuild confidence and emotional ties.
2. Increase of internal and external pressure
The dismissal of IVF will not only bring internal pressure to both spouses, but also face external pressure from society and family. People's expectations and concerns about IVF make couples feel the pressure of failure and criticism from others after dismissal.
The expectation pressure of family and society may lead couples to conceal the fact that IVF failed, making them more isolated and confused. This will further increase the distance and distrust between couples.
In this case, the husband and wife need to be frank and relative, and choose their own way to deal with external pressure. Seeking support from family members and friends can help couples get through this difficult period.
3. Change of individual pursuit
The dismissal of IVF may lead to the reevaluation of couples' reproductive goals and life pursuit. They may start to consider other ways to achieve individual happiness and satisfaction, such as career development, travel, education, etc.
This change in pursuit may lead to differences between couples in future planning and goal setting. One of them may still want to continue trying to have children, while the other may want to find other ways to enrich his life.
In this case, the husband and wife need to carry out in-depth communication to jointly explore the balance between personal pursuit and fertility goals. Seeking professional advice and suggestions can help couples find solutions suitable for both sides.
4. Remodeling of husband and wife relationship
The dismissal of IVF may have a profound impact on the relationship between husband and wife, but it also provides an opportunity to reshape the relationship between husband and wife. Couples can grow together and support each other in the face of setbacks and pressures, and enhance mutual understanding and emotional ties.
This is an opportunity to reassess and adjust the relationship between husband and wife. Couples can share their feelings, listen to each other's opinions, and work together to develop new goals and plans. By facing difficulties together, couples can be more closely linked.
summary
The dismissal of IVF has had many impacts on the relationship between husband and wife. The psychological pressure and frustration, the increase of internal and external pressure, the change of individual pursuit and the remodeling of husband and wife relationship are all the manifestations of this influence. However, couples can actively seek professional help to meet this challenge through mutual understanding and support. Only by jointly facing difficulties and adjusting expectations can couples continue to maintain a healthy relationship after IVF dismissal.
