How does IVF affect couples' feelings?
Test tube baby is a kind of pregnancy technology, which helps couples who cannot conceive naturally to realize their reproductive dreams through artificial assisted pregnancy. The advent of this technology has undoubtedly brought hope to many couples, but it will also have an impact on their feelings. This article will discuss the influence of IVF on the relationship between husband and wife from four aspects: preparation stage, pregnancy stage, childcare stage and psychological adjustment.
Preparation phase
In the process of preparing for IVF, the couple suffered great psychological pressure. They may experience multiple treatments, drug injections and operations. These processes will affect the physical and mental health of the couple. First of all, due to the emotional fluctuations in the treatment process, the communication between husband and wife may be hindered, leading to increased quarrels and conflicts. Secondly, couples will face economic problems. The relatively high cost of IVF may cause pressure on the family's financial situation. Finally, couples need to face social pressure and the curious eyes of others in the preparation stage, which will also have a certain impact on their feelings.
However, the preparation process of IVF can also be a common experience between couples, deepening their intimate relationship. Couples can support, encourage and understand each other to get through this difficult stage together. In this process, the relationship between husband and wife may be stronger, and mutual trust and dependence will also increase.
pregnancy
When IVF is successfully conceived, the wife's body will undergo a series of changes, which may include pregnancy reaction, emotional fluctuations, weight gain, etc. These changes may lead to communication and emotional difficulties between couples. Couples may quarrel or contradict because of their wives' discomfort. In addition, because the wife needs to rest and take care of her body, the daily life of the couple may be affected to some extent.
However, pregnancy is also an opportunity for couples to enhance their feelings. Couples can share the joy and expectation of life together, participate in prenatal education activities together, and deepen mutual understanding and love. By paying attention to the wife's physical and emotional changes, the husband can better assume the responsibility and role of the father and strengthen their emotional ties.
Childcare stage
After the success of IVF pregnancy, the couple ushered in the childcare stage. Raising babies is an arduous task, which requires joint efforts of husband and wife. Fatigue, stress and responsibility in the process of childcare may lead to increased conflicts between couples. For example, the husband and wife have different opinions on the division of labor in childcare. With the growth of babies, couples also need to face the differences in educational concepts, how to train children and other issues.
However, childcare can also enhance the relationship between husband and wife. It is a tacit understanding and practice for couples to raise children together. By participating in the process of caring for children together, the trust and cooperation between couples are strengthened. Jointly witnessing the growth and development of children will also bring endless joy and satisfaction to couples.
Psychological adjustment
As an assisted reproductive technology, couples need to bear certain psychological pressure. No matter in the preparation stage, pregnancy stage or childcare stage, couples may face anxiety, tension and anxiety. These negative emotions may have a negative impact on the couple's feelings.
In order to reduce pressure and adjust mentality, couples can seek psychological guidance and support. Communicating with professionals can help couples understand and cope with negative emotions and enhance their adaptability. In addition, couples can improve their psychological state through positive psychological adjustment methods, such as sports, relaxation skills and communication.
summary
IVF has a complex impact on the feelings of couples. In the preparation stage, couples may face pressure and difficulties, but also have opportunities to enhance mutual understanding and dependence. During pregnancy and childcare, couples may face emotional fluctuations and emotional distress, but they can also enhance their feelings through common experience and participation in childcare. In terms of psychological adjustment, couples can reduce stress and improve mental health through positive ways.
The arrival of IVF has undoubtedly brought opportunities for couples to realize their reproductive dreams. Although there are some difficulties and challenges, as long as couples insist on mutual understanding and support, I believe their feelings will become more solid and stable.
